Lesson no 2 for Naufal

Anakku yang sorang nih...biler menjelang malam jer mata jadi cerah. Mula2 masa awal seminggu dua, mak aku kata dier nih confuse nih siang ngan malam memandangkan dier lahir awal pagi, jadi untuk seminggu dua yang pertama kami sama2 jadi burung hantu, siang Naufal tido ibu pon tido, malam menjelma Naufal x mau tido berhempas pulas nak tidokan dier, kadang2 dier tido sejam jer paling lama...penat tangan ibunyer mendukung Naufal; naseb masa tu Naufal masih ringan..

Masuk minggu keempat Naufal dah start kurang tido siang, malam pon kurang tido, last2 ibu dier yang letih...mula2 risau jugak sebab Naufal kurang tido, bukan baby kena banyak tido ker?..then google2 tgk ramai jugak yang mempunyai masalah yang sama....mak tok dier pon risau (nak fikirkan anak kat ward lagi, cucu lak x nak tido ) sampai ada ketika mak tok give up nak belikan buai untuk Naufal, nasib ibu tahan lagi, yelah biler dah pakai buai banyak pulak masalah yang timbul nanti...

Menjelang 40 hari baru keadaan stabil balik, siang tido kejap jer, dlm sejam wakeup dlm 2 jam pastu tido balik, tapi malam tuh susah sikit, Naufal nak didodoikan sampai lena, ada masa sampai dier jerit2 1 rumah dengar gara2 x mau tido..tapi biler Naufal tido oklah dier cuma bangun untuk minum susu sahaja, Alhamdulillah...

Mula2 try cara dukung2 sampai dier tido(lenguhnyer x terkira masa tuh), try rocking chair..macam2lah cara nak bagi dier tido, then my husband risau, biler ibunyer oncall nanti abah sensorang nak jaga Naufal, nnti susahlah, kire x nak biasakan dier tido berdukung(sbb kalau letak jer Naufal nangis), then i talked to my bestfriend Syahirah, she advice me to find a way, so that my baby can sleep by himself..jadi terjadilah lesson no 2 Naufal, how to sleep by himself.

So sekali lagi ibu check kat google camner nak settlekan problem Naufal nih..then ibu terbaca satu ruangan di Johnsons baby, 3 simple step for bedtime routine.http://www.johnsonsbaby.com/Sleep/

Step 1 : Bathing
Step 2: massage
Step 3:Quietly off to sleep..

So pas baca tuh bersemangatlah ibu nak melakukannyer..malam 1st failed, Naufal jerit2 biler dimmed the light (cam tahu2 jer)..mula-mula ibu hampir give up tapi kena teruskan jugak..
So macam-maram cara dah kuar,a few step to ader yang kena modified, tapi masih ikut 3 step tuh(ubah suai mengikut citarasa),

Alhamdulillah, sekarang Naufal ader peningkatan, ader masa biler dier badmood sangat atau ader masa2 yang x dapat dielakkan 3 step tuh terskip, susah jugak nak tidokan dier, tapi buat masa nih, routine dah mula sebati kat Naufal...Ibu bagi grade 5 bintang untuk anak ibu...pandainyer...

lesson no 1 for my little star

1st hour of life, my little star dah start breast feeding course(eventhough we skip the skin to skin contact part). selepas itu bermulalah kisah Naufal dan susu ibu..hehe

2 minggu pertama Naufal direct feeding(meaning direct from breast) pas 2 minggu, i thought want to try bottle feeding. i already brought him 3 MAM's bottle(dengar kata MAM nih bagus, anticolic, teat dier pon bagus,reduced risk of nipple confusion) mula2 ok, naufal boleh jer trima bottle feeding dengan jayanyer..lega hati ibu..) lepas tuh ibu pon sambung dengan direct feeding jer(sebab mudah tak pyh nak thawkan susu, but i still pump for milk)...

masuk 40 hari, ingatkan nak ajar naufal bottle feeding day time, direct feeding night time, alih2 Naufal reject bottle feeding, jenuh jugak nak bg dier bottle, dier luak2kan, then i ask my mum to give(ader org kater dier refuse sebab biler dier terbau ibu dier th nak direct feeding) tapi Naufal still refuse..masa tuh berpeluh2, biler dier dh nangis lapar jerit2 terpaksa bagi jugak direct feeding..masa tu kecewanyer ibu...

Then google2 jumpalah satu forum, they recommand bottle Tommee Tippee, dier punyer teat tuh mimik can natural teat( kire can slogan dier close to nature) then bottle dier pon wide neck(as if like breast); curve botol tuh pon direka seolah2 cam cara we hold our breast (C shape). so ibu ngan Aunty Ana pon ronda2 Manjung cari kedai yang menjual Tommee Tippee nih..alhamdulillah jumpa...

Mula2 bagi ok, tapi ader ms2 dier reject jugaklah (much better dari sebelum nih)..akhirnyer terubat jugak kekecewaan ibu, sekarang Naufal dah boleh trima dua2 bottle feeding(tapi hanya ngan Tommee Tippee bottle sahaja) dan direct feeding...

the longest confinement period....

44 days confinement period wasn't really tough for me, but out of sudden it become the worse 44 days in my life...
i planned to deliver at my mother's house so that i can have my confinement period at my hometown, surrounding with my beloved family, but god already had planned for me...
The same days after me and my baby discharge from ward, my beloved sister, Ani been admitted to ICU, intubated, ventilated for respiratory acidosis. she only managed to see her nephew for a second before went to hospital.
Ani had suffer for pontine glioma for 2 years, she started to had cough a few days, before her condition become worse. she become cyanose and her breathing become shallow...
i cannot see Ani since i was on curfew for confinement, makes me so stress, i only manage to get news from my sister and others family member...i was the tougher moment in my life.
my husband went back to KL for work, Ana and my mother had to stayed in hospital to look after Ani, while my father during that time had to go for outstation...i feel sad,worried,alone,loss...plus i just had new baby to look after
2 times my sister been intubated, after 32 days in hospital Ani managed to be discharge from ward safely (thank you for all families,friends who never stop pray for my sister)
i'm so lucky to have very supportive husband, all family member and friends, who never stop to cheer me up and motivate me so i won't let down....

Majlis cukur jambul dan berendoi Amsyar Naufal

Idea Majlis cukur jambul ni hasil gabungan idea Aunty Ana,Aunty Ani dan maktok. Alhamdulillah setelah sebulan Aunty Ani admitted to hospital, jadi majlis ini sekali dengan majlis doa selamat.

Tema, doorgift dan semua persediaan diaturkan oleh Aunty Ana dan maktok, since ibu masih berada di Kota Bharu lagi. Kire event manager yang tak berbayar. Kami decide pilih tema warna biru laut untuk majlis kali ini. Semua Keluarga dijemput hadir bersama memeriahkan majlis.

Doorgift

the "bear flower"

the cake

Buaian

ibu dan Abah

Star of The Day

Marhaban dan cukur jambul

Berendoi

family

Abah Ibu dan Naufal

Hero ibu dan Abah

Terima Kasih kepada semua ahli keluarga yang sanggup datang dan membantu majlis kami ini. Terima kasih jugak kepada aunty ana dan maktok yg jadi event manager!